have (someone) under (one's) thumb



have (someone) under (one's) thumb

To maintain authoritarian control over someone; to continually force someone to submit to one's will. They seem happy when they're out and about, but I hear that Johnny has his husband completely under his thumb when they're at home. Although the job was well paying, I couldn't stand the way the boss had me under his thumb.
See also: have, thumb

Common Names:

NameGenderPronouncedUsage
Linn[lin]
Elpidios-Late Greek
NiamhNEEVIrish, Irish Mythology
Paige[peidʒ]
Tizianotee-TSYAH-noItalian
Omobolanle-Western African, Yoruba