keep (someone) under (one's) thumb



keep (someone) under (one's) thumb

To maintain authoritarian control over someone; to continually force someone to submit to one's will. They seem happy when they're out and about, but I hear that Johnny keeps his husband under his thumb at home. Although the job was well paying, I couldn't stand the way the boss kept me under his thumb.
See also: keep, thumb

Common Names:

NameGenderPronouncedUsage
'Abbas-Arabic, Persian
Eoforhild-Anglo-Saxon
Uilleam-Scottish
Adrianneayd-ree-AN, AYD-ree-ənEnglish
Wynonnawi-NON-əEnglish (Rare)
SeÒNaid-Scottish