wear the

pants/trousers Informal

To exercise controlling authority in a household.

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Rexana	rek-SAN-ə	English (Rare)
Apostolos	-	Greek
Pitter	PIT-tər (Limburgish)	Frisian, Limburgish
Matilda	[mə'ti:ldə]
Diamond	['daiəmənd]
VÉRonique	ve-ro-NEEK	French