Fig. to the detriment of someone or something; to the harm of someone or something. He had a good laugh at the expense of his brother.He took a job in a better place at the expense of a larger income.
1. Paid for by someone, as in The hotel bill for the sales force is at the expense of the company. [Mid-1600s]
2. To the detriment or injury of a person or thing, as in We can't speed up production at the expense of quality, or The laughter was all at Tom's expense. [Late 1600s]