cross purpose

A goal or purpose that conflicts with someone else's. Often used in the phrase "at cross purposes." It sounds like you two are at cross purposes right now, so take a few minutes and reach an agreement about what you hope to achieve.

Common Names:

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Aleid	AH-liet	Dutch
Maya (1)	-	Hinduism, Indian, Hindi, Marathi
Luce	LOO-che (Italian), LOOS (French)	Italian, French
LuÍS	loo-EESH	Portuguese
Glukel	-	Yiddish
Zeru	-	Basque