cross purpose

A goal or purpose that conflicts with someone else's. Often used in the phrase "at cross purposes." It sounds like you two are at cross purposes right now, so take a few minutes and reach an agreement about what you hope to achieve.

Common Names:

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Bohumil	-	Czech, Slovak
Kazimierz	kah-ZEEM-yesh	Polish
ŞUkrİ	-	Turkish
Izrail	-	Judeo-Christian Legend
Meagan	MEG-ən	English
Astra	AS-trə	English (Rare)