cross purpose

A goal or purpose that conflicts with someone else's. Often used in the phrase "at cross purposes." It sounds like you two are at cross purposes right now, so take a few minutes and reach an agreement about what you hope to achieve.

Common Names:

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Gethin	-	Welsh
Caerwyn	-	Welsh
Kwasi	-	Western African, Akan
SÉBastien	se-bas-TYAWN	French
Abdulah	-	Bosnian
Yevgen	-	Ukrainian