cross purpose

A goal or purpose that conflicts with someone else's. Often used in the phrase "at cross purposes." It sounds like you two are at cross purposes right now, so take a few minutes and reach an agreement about what you hope to achieve.

Common Names:

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Kristiane	kris-tee-AH-nə	German
Jericho	JER-i-ko (English)	Biblical
Buck	BUK	English
Cem	JEM	Turkish
Morris	MAWR-is (English)	English, Medieval English
Fiorino	-	Italian