find it in one's heart

Persuade oneself to do something, as in They were an hour late, but I couldn't find it in my heart to scold them. This expression, today generally put in the negative, alludes to searching self-examination. [Mid-1400s]

Common Names:

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Boos	-	Biblical Greek
Stella (1)	STEL-ə (English)	English, Italian, Dutch, German
Zita (1)	DZEE-tah (Italian)	Italian, Portuguese, German, Czech, Slovak
Valencia	bah-LEN-thyah (Spanish), bah-LEN-syah (Latin American Spanish)	Spanish
PervİN	-	Turkish
RefİK	-	Turkish