find it in one's heart



find it in one's heart

Persuade oneself to do something, as in They were an hour late, but I couldn't find it in my heart to scold them. This expression, today generally put in the negative, alludes to searching self-examination. [Mid-1400s]
See also: find, heart

Common Names:

NameGenderPronouncedUsage
ValdÍS-Ancient Scandinavian, Icelandic
Patrick['pætrik]
Arwel-Welsh
Akachi-Western African, Igbo
Gwenneg-Breton
Borna-Croatian