get the wrong end of the stick



get (hold of) the wrong end of the stick

  (informal)
to not understand a situation correctly Her friend saw us arrive at the party together and got hold of the wrong end of the stick. I said how nice he was and Julie got the wrong end of the stick and thought I wanted to go out with him.
See also: end, get, of, stick, wrong

Common Names:

NameGenderPronouncedUsage
Mack (2)-Medieval English
LannyLAN-eeEnglish
GrenvilleGREN-vilEnglish (Rare)
Shona['ʃəuna:]
TamarTAH-mahr (English), TAY-mahr (English)Hebrew, Georgian, Biblical, Biblical Hebrew
Anargul-Kazakh