get the wrong end of the stick



get (hold of) the wrong end of the stick

  (informal)
to not understand a situation correctly Her friend saw us arrive at the party together and got hold of the wrong end of the stick. I said how nice he was and Julie got the wrong end of the stick and thought I wanted to go out with him.
See also: end, get, of, stick, wrong

Common Names:

NameGenderPronouncedUsage
Ault[ɔ:lt]
EdenEE-dən (English)Hebrew, English (Modern)
KenelmKEN-əlmEnglish (Rare)
Theophanes-Ancient Greek
Dye[dɑi]
HenryHEN-reeEnglish