keep (someone) under (one's) thumb



keep (someone) under (one's) thumb

To maintain authoritarian control over someone; to continually force someone to submit to one's will. They seem happy when they're out and about, but I hear that Johnny keeps his husband under his thumb at home. Although the job was well paying, I couldn't stand the way the boss kept me under his thumb.
See also: keep, thumb

Common Names:

NameGenderPronouncedUsage
Odoacero-do-AY-sər (English)Ancient Germanic
LassiLAHS-seeFinnish
Dhaval-Indian, Marathi, Gujarati
Norton['nɔ:tən]
Betty['beti]
Setare-Persian