keep (someone) under (one's) thumb



keep (someone) under (one's) thumb

To maintain authoritarian control over someone; to continually force someone to submit to one's will. They seem happy when they're out and about, but I hear that Johnny keeps his husband under his thumb at home. Although the job was well paying, I couldn't stand the way the boss kept me under his thumb.
See also: keep, thumb

Common Names:

NameGenderPronouncedUsage
Zacchaeusza-KEE-əs (English)Biblical
Dubaku-Western African, Akan
Esmail-Persian, Arabic
RÉMire-MEEFrench
CyprianSIP-ree-ən (English)History
Hananiahhan-ə-NIE-ə (English)Biblical