like a deer in (the) headlights



like a deer in (the) headlights

In a state or manner of paralyzing surprise, fear, or bewilderment. Likened to the tendency of deer to freeze in place in front of an oncoming vehicle. When she asked me to marry her, I could only stand there like a deer in headlights. He froze like a deer in the headlights when I caught him taking money out of the register.
See also: deer, headlight, like

Common Names:

NameGenderPronouncedUsage
KristofferKREES-tof-fer (Finnish)Swedish, Norwegian, Danish, Finnish
Opal['əupəl]
Laurentin-French
KeesKAY:SDutch
Saraid-Irish
Khatuna-Georgian