not have the heart to

Be unable to bring oneself to say or do something, as in He didn't have the heart to tell her the cat had died. [Mid-1600s] Also see have a heart.

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Tore (1)	-	Swedish, Norwegian, Danish
Azar	-	Persian
Lahja	LAHH-yah	Finnish
Mcnamara	['mæknə.mærə]
Cindi	SIN-dee	English
Denzel	den-ZEL	English (Modern)