see for what are

see somebody/something for what they (really) are

to start to understand the truth about someone or something, especially when the truth is bad She suddenly saw him for what he was - a cold-hearted, calculating killer.

Common Names:

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Tena	TE-nah	Croatian
Faust	-	Literature
Izanami	-	Far Eastern Mythology
Pali	-	Albanian
Kelia	-	English (Rare)
Joseph	['dʒəuzif]