the rot sets in

if the rot sets in, a situation starts to get worse If couples stop communicating, that's when the rot really sets in.

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Melania	me-LAHN-yah (Polish)	Italian, Spanish, Polish, Late Roman
Besnik	-	Albanian
Kane	-	Irish
Jameela	-	Arabic
Wilbur	['wilbə]
Abraham	['eibrəhæm]