wallow in the mire

To remain stuck in an undesirable or negative situation due to one's unwillingness to do something to change. Jane left you six months ago—it's time to stop wallowing in the mire and get back to living your life.

Common Names:

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Clover	KLO-vər	English (Rare)
Bedivere	-	Welsh Mythology, Arthurian Romance
Aline	ə-LEEN (Portuguese), ay-LEEN (English)	French, Portuguese (Brazilian), English
WiesŁAwa	vye-SWAH-vah	Polish
Line	-	Danish, Norwegian, French
Erebus	-	Greek Mythology (Latinized)