wear the

pants/trousers Informal

To exercise controlling authority in a household.

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Sargent	['sa:dʒənt]
Tamazi	-	Georgian
LÍLe	-	Irish
Josefine	yo-se-FEEN (Swedish), yo-ze-FEE-nə (German)	Swedish, Danish, Norwegian, German
Malinda	mə-LIN-də	English
Katy	['keiti]