wear the trousers

(British, American & Australian humorous) also wear the pants (American & Australian humorous)

to be the person in a relationship who makes all the important decisions I don't think there's any doubt about who wears the trousers in their house.

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Leona	lee-O-nə (English), LE-o-nah (German)	English, German
Athanasius	ath-ə-NAY-shəs (English)	Ancient Greek (Latinized)
Chelsea	CHEL-see	English
Alexa	ə-LEK-sə	English
Eugenijus	-	Lithuanian
Sang-Hun	sahng-hoon	Korean