who wears the trousers?

Who is in charge of this situation? Typically used to describe who has more power in a relationship or household, with "trousers" denoting masculine authority, as women traditionally wore skirts throughout history. She won't let you go out with me tonight? Who wears the trousers in your relationship, man?

Common Names:

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Ragnvald	-	Swedish, Norwegian, Danish
Ulick	-	Irish
Fleming	['flemiŋ]
Willamar	-	Ancient Germanic
Vivian	VIV-ee-ən (English)	English, Swedish, Norwegian, Danish
Stewart	['stjuət]