by (one's) lights

Directed by or in accordance with one's own beliefs, convictions, or understanding. Never let someone else try to dictate who you are—you have to live by your own lights.

Common Names:

Name	Pronounced	Usage
Edmondo	-	Italian
Kalle	KAHL-le (Finnish)	Swedish, Finnish
Booth	[bu:θ]
Teasag	-	Scottish
Vasco	BAHS-ko (Spanish), VASH-koo (Portuguese)	Spanish, Portuguese, Italian
GİZem	-	Turkish